"In the morning I left voice mail messages to call me on my mother's and sister's numbers. As I came in to work I saw S still logged in to his Skype account, where he'd left it going for his final exercise round. More subdued phone calls during the day, there would be a viewing at the hospital the next day. I was unfamiliar with the term, but googling confirmed that it was an opportunity to see the body. When had this procedure been (re-)introduced?"
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Good point! Long after the last digital medium has expired, you will still be able to dig out cuneiform tablets in Iraq and Syria to piece together those areas' ancient history.
Maybe you should commit some of your blog to cuneiform tablets. You know, just to be safe.